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12 Years After Adopting A Boy That Nobody Wanted, Woman Finally Finds Out Why

Two alternatives

Before getting a medical diagnosis for their problem, they had started going for a couple’s counseling to sort out their issue. The counselor asked them to change their sexual habits to increase their odds of conceiving a baby. To their dismay, they saw no tangible benefits from following the advice.

As a result, there were only two alternatives left, one of which was for Patrick to take the fertility pills, and the other less preferable option was “artificial insemination” or adoption. After opting for the medication, no results were seen. Adoption was the least favorable means of getting a baby for them.

Anna on a tour

A strong woman like Anna knew her way out of her problems. Apart from the tour for work, she would take a solo trip to the destination of her choice. She felt like a better person and felt a deep connection with nature. In fact, her humane and compassionate heart would show up after socializing with people from different cultures.

Consequently, Anna realized that there was more to life than her obsession with going up the career ladder. Her self-confidence got boosted with her feeling satisfied with her existence. She felt like she had been sent for a reason, which was to connect with life itself.

Love ringing its bells

Finding your soulmate when on tour isn’t unheard of. Anna was looking at the trip as an opportunity to know herself better. With every journey she would take, Anna would fall in love with her ideologies and depth even more. She received a whole package of happiness with her trip.

Besides, Anna became one of the group members at a cafe, all of whom were headed to Argentina. However, Anna locked eyes with a guy who had a shy nature and soon realized that she had fallen in love from the moment she laid her eyes on him. This bashful guy was named Patrick and had a unique aura to him.

Anna, a career-oriented girl

A 27-year-old Anna Martin had an astonishing career flourishing before her eyes. But something wasn’t right because she wanted a man in her life that could complete her. Her loneliness didn’t let her rejoice in the success that she got in her career. She had always been headstrong in what she wanted for herself, and so she ventured on to find love in unknown places.

Moreover, Anna’s desire for a man who could sweep her off her feet was getting intense with every passing day. She knew that there was some vital piece missing from her life and that only her significant other could make her feel lively again.

 Match made in Heaven

Anna and Patrick spent the rest of the trip together. After tapping into his life, Anna discovered that the duo had a lot of things in common. Patrick loved traveling as much as Anna did, and they shared a spiritual connection. As the days passed, they got more comfortable with each other and felt closer.

Furthermore, their fondness for each other grew stronger with the time spent together. They both knew that they were in it for the long run. Parting ways from each other seemed painful, and their mutual feelings made them even more attracted to each other. It felt as if they knew one another from the beginning.

Patrick, the warrior

Not only did the couple have similar interests, but they also had the same regional background. Coming from the same neighborhood, their belief in the match got further established. Patrick worked as a firefighter. He was a warrior who sought solace in helping extinguish fires that could cause casualties.

In addition, he had sprains and strains as a consequence of saving lives. He wore all his scars as a badge of honor, which further pleased Anna. Besides, all the pieces fell into place when Anna discovered that he was as career-driven as her. Patrick was the man of her dreams, and they saw life blossoming from there.

New career path

Patrick worked as a firefighter and saved lives. This was the passion that gave his life meaning. However, he met with a terrible accident that injured him severely. He got discharged after spending many months in the hospital and knew that it was time to take a turn.

He bore his scars and wounds as a badge of honor. However, his love for his job had to come to an end. Patrick channeled his experience with people into becoming a junior marketer. This was a huge career change for him since he had always been a firefighter. Moreover, it was time that he tested the waters and found his ideal job.

Love in the air

Lives for Anna and Patrick seemed bland without each other. They were completely in love and this growing affection knew no bounds. The two had already created enough memories to start daydreaming about. Their collective experiences were shared with zest and zeal.

Furthermore, seeing their lives intertwining rapidly, moving in together seemed the next best choice to opt for, and so they did. They began their journey in unison and enjoyed listening to music with coziness. Now, their love for each other was running through their veins. Life for them was nothing less than an answered prayer.

Clues hidden in actions

Declaration of their affection for each other was made through both words and actions. They lived up to their promises of keeping the spark of their love ignited despite their engagement with work. Most importantly, Anna and Patrick made sure to take time out of their busy days to be together.

They were truly inseparable, and Patrick saw in her a woman with who he wanted to have children. He felt Anna was the perfect fit for him. Therefore, with things already looking good for both of them, Patrick decided to ask Anna’s hand in marriage. He couldn’t have asked for more from life than Anna’s approval.

Taking marital vows

Having agreed to the proposal of marriage, Anna and Patrick wanted to live happily ever after. They took the marriage vows and cemented their two-year-long relationship into a concrete legal agreement. Their life was better than their wildest dreams. They were stunned by how lucky they got to have each other.

However, what was supposed to be a pleasant experience saw a huge stumbling block in its way. It was as though an evil eye was cast on their married life, and they were longing for happiness. Their hopes for having a family were trampled over with a problem that didn’t seem to have a solution.

Some months into the union

Anna and Patrick shared a unique bond with each other that stayed with them even after marriage. They both knew how to walk on eggshells around some touchy topics. Their sensitivity towards one another made the companionship look like a child’s play. After some months into their union, they found out that they couldn’t be happier.

Anna and Patrick were living marital bliss. Indeed, getting married seemed like a perfect call, given that they fit together like pieces of the puzzle. Anna had found her prince charming and was only waiting to start a family together.

Hopes for a tiny tot

Anna and Patrick started trying for a baby, knowing deeply that they wanted to start a family. On the other side, they shuddered with pain on discovering that Anna couldn’t conceive despite her continued efforts at it. Their dreams for raising children were shattered, and they lived through a nightmare with this unwanted disclosure.

They went from imagining their lives filled with joy to devastation taking over them. As a result, their plans of taking care of their children got dropped with this harsh reality. Anna saw their life falling apart before her eyes, and she had never felt this helpless in her entire life.

Alarming news

Their attempt at getting pregnant didn’t seem to come to fruition. They saw life failing them, which they could do nothing about. With both Anna and Patrick being successful in their professional life, they wanted to attain a personal blessing in the form of a child.

With such disappointment, they booked an appointment with a relevant doctor. On further investigation, the doctor revealed that Patrick didn’t have the sperms that could make a baby. His sperms were not desirable for conception. They were traumatized for life and didn’t know what to do with the problem that sought no answer. Now, Anna and Patrick wanted a way out of this complication.

Two alternatives

Before getting a medical diagnosis for their problem, they had started going for a couple’s counseling to sort out their issue. The counselor asked them to change their sexual habits to increase their odds of conceiving a baby. To their dismay, they saw no tangible benefits from following the advice.

As a result, there were only two alternatives left, one of which was for Patrick to take the fertility pills, and the other less preferable option was “artificial insemination” or adoption. After opting for the medication, no results were seen. Adoption was the least favorable means of getting a baby for them.

The only way out

The couple first consulted the doctor about the pros and cons of inseminating Anna with a sperm prepared to impregnate her. The doctor walked the couple through the process of how their chances of conceiving a baby could be raised. Anna and Patrick lamented at the thought of how difficult their journey was going to be.

Besides, they attended an adoption committee meeting where they were briefed about the process. What forced them to want to make someone else’s child their own was giving him the life he deserved. This expectation kept them thrilled, and they were now a step away from getting a child that they’d dreamt of raising.

Transformative journey

Adoption wasn’t an easy choice to make since Anna and Patrick had always wanted children of their own. They had to take the bitter pill and compromise on their desire to have a blood-related child. The saddest part was that they had to agree that any other option couldn’t be selected for the lack of preference.

Therefore, they were now looking at new life where bringing up a child still seemed possible. Adoption gave them hopes that had been killed long before. They saw themselves lucky to embrace a child who, for some reason, has been left for adoption.

A ray of hope

Patrick considered artificial insemination as intolerable and looked at adoption as a way of helping the forsaken kids to have a better future. So, Anna started calling all the people who had adopted before to understand the process better and deal with such a life-changing situation. After getting positive feedback from everyone, they chose to adopt a kid and give him the best of everything.

Soon, their nervousness around adopting a child vanished with the joyous lives they saw other parents having. Adoption shone a ray of light upon their despairing lives, and they were all set to welcome a new family member.

New beginning

Anna and Patrick had weighed their options properly and were now hell-bent on bringing a child home. Their doctor suggested foster care, where they started looking for their perfect child. Not to mention, they had already woven imaginative threads of what their baby was going to look like.

Their first visit to the foster home assured them that their lives would change for the better. Hence, the pair became delighted with the prospect of getting hold of a child who they were yet to take a look at. Although they hadn’t expected to get swayed by parenthood even before seeing the child, everything was planned out in their favor.

The process of adoption

The process itself was tedious and needed full attention to having the baby of their dreams. Older kids aren’t preferred to be brought home for adoption and usually get left out from hope for their forever homes. Anna and Patrick had always wanted an infant who could go through all stages of life before their eyes.

And so, their extensive research on the topic of adoption helped them make the process relatively easy. The two partners hadn’t seen things coming as they began unfolding the mystery of parenthood. Undoubtedly, they were going to be great parents considering their dedication.

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